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St. Paul's Lutheran Church
Tuesday August 13th, 2019
5:00pm - 7:00pm

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Pamela Lafrenz

Pamela Lafrenz, 53, of Langdon, ND, passed away Friday, August 9, 2019, at her home in Langdon after a long, courageous battle with breast cancer.

Pam was born April 12, 1966, in Langdon, ND, to Harry and Marie (Chaput) Everson. She attended school in Langdon, graduating in 1984. She then went to Josef’s School of Hair Design in Grand Forks and graduated in 1985. Pam married Greg Lafrenz on June 7, 1986, and had three children together: Amber, Adam, and Austin.

Pam was always very ambitious. While pregnant with her first child, she opened her own salon, Artistic Hair Design, in Langdon. She owned and operated her salon until 2009, when she started working at the courthouse in Langdon. Pam was the assistant tax director for many years while she continued her education. Despite undergoing cancer treatment throughout her schooling, Pam was able to graduate from Lake Region State College in 2011. Pam then became the Cavalier County Tax Director until 2018.

Pam was a very handy woman and seemed to be able to tackle anything. She was always working on various crafts and projects. Pam enjoyed reading, being outdoors, tending to her flowers, taking pictures, scrapbooking, and traveling. Although she had many hobbies, Pam’s main passion in life was her children, grandchildren, family, and friends.

Pam is survived by her children: Amber (Jason) Soli, Adam (Alexis) Lafrenz, and Austin (Breanna) Lafrenz; four grandchildren: Lucy, Henry, Jayde, and Blair; nine siblings: Linda Welsh, Mary Jane (Galen) Domres, Patty (Greg) Fetsch, Dennis (Cindy) Everson, Jim Everson, Greg (Jolene) Everson, Kelly (Joyce) Everson, Randy Everson, and Tim Everson; and numerous nieces and nephews. Pam was preceded in death by her parents, brother Larry, Greg Lafrenz, and Don and Lila Lafrenz.

Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Wednesday, August 14, 2019, at Emmanuel Evangelical Church in Langdon, ND. Visitation will be from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. with a 7:00 p.m. prayer service on Tuesday, August 13, 2019, at the church. Burial will be at Lebanon Cemetery, Langdon.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorials be directed to Cavalier County Cancer Crusaders, Cavalier County Library, or Langdon Senior Center.

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A candle was lit in memory of Pamela Lafrenz

Joann and JohnLawrence Aug 15 2019 12:00 AM

To Pam's family Pam was a beautiful strong person. May your memories carry you through this difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you now and always. God Bless you all. Rest now Pam; Heaven has gotten a beautiful angel
Ed & Karen Liebersbach

Ed & Karen Liebersbach Aug 14 2019 12:00 AM

Our sympathy to all her family. May she rest in peace with the Lord now.
Wayne & Darlene Rutledge

Wayne & Darlene Rutledge Aug 14 2019 12:00 AM

To all of Pam's family, we were so saddened to hear of your loss. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Kurt & Ann Mack family.

Kurt & Ann Mack Aug 14 2019 12:00 AM

To all Pam's family, children, siblings, grandchildren, cousins.
Pam was a wonderful, strong lady. Love this cousin of mine. She smiled despite the pain and always thought of others before herself. May God bless you all.
Love and prayers, Denise (Chaput) and Steve Bielejeski

Denise Chaput Bielejeski Aug 13 2019 12:00 AM

Pam's Family, Our thoughts and prayers surround all of you. May the memories you have bring you comfort, strength and courage to face each day as Pam would have wanted you to. GOD bless her memory and GOD bless all of you, Don & Michelle Murray

Michelle Murray Aug 12 2019 12:00 AM

Thinking of the Pam LaFrenz family at this time. You will always have your memories. She is finally at peace and no longer in pain, she can rest now.

Anna Spivey Aug 12 2019 12:00 AM

To Pam's family, you have my deepest sympathy on her loss. The tribute video was lovely. Always sweetly smiling. You are all in thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Nelson

Kathy Nelson Aug 12 2019 12:00 AM

I was saddened to read this morning that Pam had passed away. Prayers to her children and grand children and prayers to the entire Everson family.

Dennis Klein Aug 11 2019 12:00 AM

I am so sorry for your loss of Pam, she was a wonderful person who was so nice to my mother as her hairdresser, she was a amazing person and friend and will always have a special place in my heart. With the most sincere sympathy to you all, I will have you all in my prayers and thoughts during this difficult time

Connie Olson Keller Aug 11 2019 12:00 AM

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